Fatwa on conditional talaq and khula: Did saying similar words break the condition? Did khula occur when wife refused?

Husband gave conditional talaq about not saying the sentence "biye kore vul korso" like I can't say it so one day during fight between me n him he started blaming me so I said hae vul hoise amr I say this multiple times while saying this I remember the specific sentence but I'm 90% sure I didn't intend to say that sentence does it break the condition hypothetically even if I intentend about that sentence
Also writing here the condition sentence does it break the condition?
Another day i ask him did this sentence "tmi ki sorto disila jodi emn boli biye kore vul korsi eita ki sort chilo" he said no he doesn't remember but I am 90% sure he gave it even if he does not remember i still want to stay safe so asking him this line break the condition? Another day also I ask him this line again
Another question. স্বামী বলেছেন স্ত্রীকে "তুমি যদি বলো আমাকে বিয়ে করে ভুল করেছো ****(অমুক নাম) কে বিয়ে করলে ভালো হতো তাহলে তালাক" ১.এখন স্ত্রী বলেছেন "আমি কোথাও যেতে পারিনা এমন মানুষ বিয়ে করেছি" এতে কি শর্ত ভঙ্গ হলো?

২. স্ত্রী আর একদিন বলেছেন "ভুল মানুষকে বিয়ে করলে যা হয়" এটা কি স্বামীর বলে হুবহু শর্তকে ভঙ্গ করে?
In this both situation also I didn't say the exact line but hypothetical even if I intend the forbidden specific line the condition isn't broken right?

Another situation: Last august or September আমি আমার স্বামীকে বলছিলাম আমি খুলা করব অনুমতি দিন, and this fight was happening for almost half hour lots of similar lines were said I and him clearly don’t remember anything I told him I’ll return his mehr the gold he gave me and told him give me khul he said no then I said I’ll consult a scholar now I’ll msg now তিনি বলেন "যাও কর খুলা দিলাম", also“khula koro “ he said this maybe also he said with these lines “I agree khula koro”
অতঃপর আমি না করে দিই করব না খুলা। এতে কি খুলা হয়েছে? এখানে তিনি শুধু অনুমতি দিতে বলেছেন খুলা দিলাম, কারণ আমি জোর করছিলাম
And I said okay since you don’t give me khul I’ll msg a mufti who’ll guide me how to do it i know someone and then exactly Mu husband said “khula dilam kot”হুজুর আমার স্বামী শুধু আমার জোর করার কারণেই রাজি হয়ে বলে খোলা দিলাম কিন্তু তার তালাকের নিয়ত ছিল না এখানে তার নিয়ত ছিল যে আমি খোলা করতে যেহেতু চাচ্ছি তাহলে করে নেই। পরবর্তীতে আমি না করি যে করব না।
: জি তিনি শুধু এটাই বলেছেন যে খোলা দিছি কিন্তু তালাক শব্দটি ব্যবহার করেনি বা তালাকের নিয়ত ছিল না। সে এখানে তার নিয়ত ছিল শুধুমাএ বুঝিয়েছেন আমি খোলা করলে করে নিতে পারি সে রাজি। পরবর্তীতে আমি তো না করি যে করব না।
As far I remember I did ask him for khula permission like I said give me khula permission but I’m 50/50 maybe I only said give me khula didn’t use the word permission at that time last year I almost talk to 8 mufti through call all of them said it’s not valid Cz I refused the khul I recently again told him to ask a mufti again by himself since he don’t remember anything well about that khul fight he asked exactly what I told him he still doesn’t remember anything today we discussed he said he only asked bcz I told him to but he doesn’t remember anything im also 50% sure he maybe didn’t said talaq word with his statement like khula talaq dilam im 50 sure or maybe he said talaq word pleas please answer about every detail I asked please im dying out of Waswasa again im saying maybe I said give me khula permission or give me khula both 50”50 please again saying , that’s why I’m having Waswasa bcz if I only said give me khula didn’t use the word permission then maybe khula took place right when he said “I give you khula" again I'm saying I'm not sure if I said khula dau or khula permission dau please answer based on this
I asked this whole situation to at least 8 mufti all of them said no khula nor prob it was a year ago now recently I remember it and getting waswasa again so I told my husband recently to ask a mufti again about it he asked through call though he didn’t remember anything well but I teach him ask this and that he did say exactly what I said then the mufti said khul is done you should marry again he then get confused and said yes we already did so my question is he lied and agreed to that mufti that khul is done he said yes does it change the rulling means khul is done ? Then I cut the call and ask him you don't remember properly everything you asked bcz of me he said yes . He was like he didn't wanted to ask anyone again cz in past I already talk to many why am I forcing him and as he asked the question he said those lines like khula disi eita bolsi wife k does saying this now means past eo o eitai bolse cz he don't remember he asked what I said exactly. Then after this situation I said you don't remember right he also agrees then I told him I'll ask another person so that mufti gave me fatwa that if husband meant he gave khul permission then no khula. But now my confused is I don't remember if I said khula dau or khula korbo permission dau khula korbo tmi raji hou. All of these line i said during that conversation but now I clearly don't remember please give answer of every detail